I made my mum a dress just in time for Xmas. I actually intended to make her a dress THREE BIRTHDAYS AGO [oh dear] as she had admired my By Hand ‘Anna’ dresses. I found some lovely autumnal brushed fabric [her birthday is in November] and ran one up after getting her to try one of mine on.
It didn’t fit. No idea why, I assume it was to do with the different qualities of the fabrics I’d used, but it was no good. When I tried to alter it, the fabric just gave up the ghost on every single seam, and it had to be abandoned. And that, I’m afraid, was that. It sank into the crate of shame, then we moved house, then wifey had an operation, then work got completely out of hand.
Every so often, I’d get a pang of guilt…but did nothing. I am a Bad Fairy.
Mum really admired one of the shirts I made for Dawn this year, the one in the dark brown cotton printed with gold clocks, and I promised to make her a dress from it. I galumphed off to Barry’s, and brought a length. I decided that Simplicity 8014 would do nicely [I already had it, but hadn’t used it], as mum pretty much exclusively wears a typical nan uniform of shirtdress and little knitted waistcoat. Bless.
Now mum is tiny- 4′ 11″ or so in her prime, but now at 79 she’s shrunk quite a bit. She’s the same basic build as me- broad shouldered, slim hipped, and thick waisted, with nice legs [which keep dad happy!] As she’s shrunk, her tummy looks a lot higher, and her back is rounding a little. Finding a waistline is tricky, as it curves up at the front, tucks in under her bust, then reappears…
However, the pattern wasn’t too tricky to fit- most of the tweaking was in chopping off a fair amount of the bodice length at the front, and a tiny bit at the back. I skipped any waistline darts, and made the sleeves a little shorter. That was pretty much it.
Then I found that I didn’t have enough yardage to cut the rather full skirt. I could have codged it, but chose not to, and decided to make up for my shameful delay by doing the job properly. We went back to Barry’s, only to find they had no more fabric. I ended up paying over the odds to someone on eBay selling it at an inflated, fat-quarter sort of rate. Sigh.
I did a final fitting just before Christmas, and mum said she wanted the skirt longer. I did what I could, and ended up making a faced hem, with a contrast bias strip to avoid taking off any length. In a mad rush, I finally finished the ruddy hem and buttonholes just before the annual visit to the parents at tea time on Christmas Eve. Phew!
On Christmas Day, she told me “it’s lovely, but it’s too long and the cuffs are too big.” Ah well. Today, I got her to try it on, chivvied her into putting shoes on instead of the eternal slippers, and saw that it’s only too long at the front. Odd. At the back, the length is perfect, at the front, nearly 2″ too long.
Turns out that because dad’s been poorly over the break, they’ve both lost their appetites and have shed several pounds. On such a little dot, that meant her tummy had reduced, and wasn’t holding the skirt up as much. Awwww.
Here she is, I had to wait WEEKS for them to send me the pics. She says she IS smiling, but that’s as good as it gets because of her Bell’s Palsy. Awwww!
I hope my hair goes as nice and white as this…eventually!
Awww I think she looks absolutely great in that. It’s a lovely dress and she is a fabulous model. I bet she loves it. My mum used to love the creations I made her. At least she said she did!!
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Your mum looks great in that dress – you’ve done a lovely job fitting it. That extra length at the front I could be growing space – we all need a bit of that!
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bless she’s very self conscious since she had the Bell’s, but still said I could put the pics up. I think she’s unlikely to grow, just keep shrinking. I could get her to stand on a box lol
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Steam punk mum! The dress looks lovely – and if she’s anything like my mum you needn’t expect to hear how much she likes it from her – just be sure she does 😃
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She certainly doesn’t gush. Dad likes her in it though, which is a good sign.
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Your mum looks smashing in her dress and she has the most beautiful hair. I hope that my looks that lovely when I stop dyeing it. I love that fabric and that 8014 pattern makes a great dress. Are you going to attempt it for yourself? I have it too and put it in my bag to have a look at this morning. Spooky! Xx
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Mum’s hair went white well before she was my age- I think I’m taking more after my dad: plenty of grey, but definitely not lovely and snowy like mum’s. I may make a shirt dress, but they’re so firmly ‘mum’s style’ in my mind, that I would probably feel fuddy! I’ll stick with the srt teacjer stuff for a while I think. It’s a nice pattern though
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I love this post! My mum is in a home now, in her wheelchair, squabbling with the other residents over which table she and I are going to sit at when I go visit. I enjoy every minute, squabbling or not, that I spend with her now. I think you will always remember “the time I made mum a dress and she modelled it with a smile on her face”! Lots of fun!
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Aw bless ’em. We are particularly fond of taking our 2 mums out together, they are hilarious, constantly complimenting one another, grumbling gently at us, and buying each other identical pressies!
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Yeah, but Mums are worth it.
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yup, they sure are
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