Many years ago, when my kids were small, I often had to make them fancy dress, or costumes for school plays. Back then, you couldn’t just go to the supermarket and pick up a ‘dressing up’ outfit, you had to have a go yourself.
I didn’t sew much for myself for years, but gradually started making a fair bit for other people. Like most of us, I barely charged at all, not feeling that my skills were high enough to be worth much! Recently, my mother in law pulled out a dress I made for her about 25 years ago [I used to be her neighbour], and although I really didn’t remember making it, I was surprised to see that it actually wasn’t half bad! [Hindsight is twenty twenty vision]
Anyway, this was way back in the late eighties/early 90s, and I made quite a few wedding dresses, and gazillions of bridesmaids’ dresses. Of course, they weren’t all strapless and corseted back then. more big sleeves, huge skirts, flounces and netty petties.
I think I used to charge about £25 for a bridesmaid dress, and £50-£100 for a wedding dress, not including fabrics. I still felt cheeky asking for the money!
Anyhew, apart from the opera costumes, I made very little between 1992 and 1996 as I’d started university as a mature student, and life was WAY too complicated.
Again, apart from the odd garment for someone else, or a curtain or so, the machine rarely got used until the lights really went back on when I had my first hip operation just before my 50th birthday. I needed a dress, and I had time to sew.
And sew. And sew. Gradually starting to realise that it wasn’t going to be as easy as it used to be to just grab a pattern and make something I could wear.
I made a few things for the then-fiancee, who’s much less lumpy than me. We had some costume parties. Fun.
THEN my youngest daughter announced that she would be getting married in 2012, I bought a new machine [then another], found The Sewing Forum, and I haven’t looked back.
Part of me wants to make more wedding dresses [I really love it] but oh, the insurance, the time, the bridezillas…
Nah, I’ll just sort out the next lot of fabric and do some cutting out. Now, where’s that silver coated linen?…
You are very talented and I love your outfits, especially the ones you made for your own wedding. You both look so happy and beautiful. I made my wedding dress in 1970 and I was very pleased with that but I would ‘t try to make one for anybody else. The fitting issues are bad enough for myself, let alone some other body. I would like a week long residential course on fitting, preferably somewhere lovely, like Cumbria with like minded old sewers!
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Aw thanks! I never used to need to fit anything- basically if it didn’t work out of the packet I assumed I’d done something wrong lol. I know better now, and have many many more fitting issues…sigh time is cruel.
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I know what you mean about feeling cheeky asking for the money.
I’ve been altering clothes for over 30 years now…The only job I’ve ever done and I still feel awkward when I say how much somebody owes me.
You’d have thought I’d have a bit more faith in my own ability by now.
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Silly isn’t it? I think it;s because we enjoy it, which makes it feel we should do it for nothing…I’m glad I got over that!
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The bill is the hardest part of sewing for clients for me. I hate it. I avoid weddings as best I can but I do get cornered sometimes 🏃
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